Jewish Life Bereavement Stone Settings This is normally conducted 11 months after the death, though some families choose to do it earlier and some later. They are usually occasions where family members speak about the deceased, and the short service is often held around the grave, frequently also marking the end of formal mourning. Where West London Synagogue have organised the burial, we will also be happy to organise a stone setting. We can also organise consecration of a memorial (plaque, rosebush, columbarium niche) to someone who has been cremated. For more information contact: Micky Nathanson, Ritual Services Co-ordinator, on 020 7535 0284.